Keeley P.

"I Love Your eBook"

    "I've started reading your book, The Ultimate Guide to Promoting Positive self-esteem in Children and I am loving it so far!! Thank you. 

Kim S.

"I Needed This"

"Arabella, I need you in my life...like every min of everyday! Thank you for the advice!".

Kursha C.

"Brilliant Strategies"

"This is brilliant - i've just bought the book and powered through it. I am implementing your strategies right now! Thank you!

Vini A.

"I've Recommended Your Book To Several Of My Mommy Friends"

"Your book about self-esteem is absolutely awesome, so well written, so well narrated. So enjoyable to listen to!

I listened to the audio version while doing some chores around the house and truly understand the mistakes my parents did which caused me to act certain while in adulthood which of course I don't want to repeat with my daughter."

"Just wanted to say thank you! I recommended your book to several of my mommy friends, and can't wait to listen to your book again with my husband next few days too."

Sherly J.

"Thank You, Great Ideas"

"Thank you so much for this (discipline information)! You've given me some ideas how to handle my 7 yr old son when it comes to telling a lie." 

Elizabeth D.

"Glad I Found Your Book & Facebook Group"

"Thank You! I'm from Benicia CA and have 3 kids that I'll be starting to homeschool this year! 3-year-old boy, 6-year-old boy, and an almost 9-year-old girl. My 6-year-old has ADHD and can be so challenging.

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Looking for a positive change in our house, and so glad I found your book and this group!"

Emma B.

"Best Parenting Book

I've Read"

"I loved reading your book

and I have read so many!!!"

Thank you!

Jessica E.

"Your Guidance

Helped Me"

"Thank you for your guidance, especially during this time of the pandemic."

Kasia O.

"Just What I Was

Looking For"

"Hi Arabella, I just want to send you a quick message to say THANK YOU for your inspirational podcast and Facebook posts about parenting! Just what I was looking for!! You have such a lovely voice to listen to and great parenting advice."

Monica R.

"Your Advice Was

Super Helpful"

"Hi Arabella, your advice was super helpful thank you!"

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"Your Methods Work"

'I'm an older Mom and these are wonderful. I tried the Grey Rock Method today for the first time...sure enough it worked! Ty!

Janelle N.

"Bless You For The

Work You Do"

"Blessings to you for doing the work and educating others."

Kim G.

"I'm A Victorious Parent"

"I have 2 kids, 6+4 and I absolutely love the idea of Victorious Parenting!

Dee C.

"Loved Your eBook"

'Purchased it (self-esteem ebook) and loved it thank you!

Elizabeth D.

"Glad I Found You"

'I am so glad to be a part of Victorious Parenting, so glad I found your book!

Fagade O.

"I Love This"

"What you are doing in VP is so valuable to me, keep up the good work!"

Julie H.

"Totally Invaluable"

"Thank you so much, your help has been invaluable."

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Leanna J.

"Your Material is Fascinating"

"I bought your Unshakeable Confidence for Kids course and i'm really enjoying it so far! I find this subject fascinating. 

Heidi B. 

"Love Your Insight"

"Thank you so much for your insight so far!"

Tanya G.

"I Enjoyed Your eBook"

"I really enjoyed reading your book! Some great insights and totally agree with a lot of your sentiments. Thank you for your book!

Tennille S.

"The Best Out Of 50+ Parenting Books"

"I'm a nurse and Mom of 5 children. I've probably read 50+ parenting books, but when I read your self-esteem book I loved it - great info!"

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"I'm Using Your Strategies"

"I'm enjoying your ebook! It's makes a lot of sense. I already see some areas that I need to work on - follow through for a start - massive one!"

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"I Wish I Found You Sooner"

"I wish I came across your book sooner, I have a lot of repair work to do with my 6 year old. Thankfully I have your help now, and can work on it"

Maria J.

"Thank You For Building My Self-esteem Too!"

"I bought Arabella's Ultimate Guide to Self-esteem and have found the resource invaluable; lots of lightbulb moments in there, for things I do right and those I do wrong...

This book is like a bottle of prosecco on a hard day of parenting & homework."

Daniel N.

"I'm Impressed By The Materials You Covered!"

"I am a parent and my biggest fear is not knowing how to help my kid through bullying and depression.

By buying your book I feel that I'm more prepared and capable to teach my kids. Most parents like myself are new to this whole parenting stuff and we still have much more to learn."

Carina H.

"This is a Game-changing eBook!"

"The Ultimate Guide to Promoting Positive Self-esteem in Children was very enlightening.

I loved the step-by-step process outlined in the book. It gave me a lot to think about. You can tell the author knows what she is talking about!"

Tanya M.

"Thank You For Your eBook"

"I really enjoyed reading your ebook. I have a lot of the same sentiments and truly believe that following through with what you say you are going to do, good or bad is something that should be taught to parents.

I have two children (2+4) and my partner and I are just trying our best, but some guidance and tools along the way help.

Thanks for your ebook!"

Dallas W.

"I Feel Better Now"

"Thank You for the advice you gave me in your group Victorious Parenting! I appreciate your help"

Eddie N.

"I'm Learning So Much"

"I'm learning a great deal from you, applying it, and seeing it work.

Thank You!

Hyung K.

"Easy To Follow Steps That Work For All Ages"

"I read the Ultimate Guide to Promoting Positive Self-esteem in Children. It's a wonderful book for parents, educators, and pretty much anyone who desires to improve their communication skills with children and adults.

She does a wonderful job of explaining what self-esteem is, and gives simple, easy-to-follow steps to help not only boost but to sustain a high level of self-esteem and self-confidence in children and teens.

As a high school teacher, I have learned so much, and know that these strategies will help me in the classroom."

Celine D.

"It's Great"

"I thought your eBook The Ultimate Guide to Promoting Positive Self-esteem in Children was great. I’m a teacher too and a parent.

Thank You."

Lisa F.

"Thank You For This Tool"

" I just bought your book and about to read. Joined FB and now I want to start using your methodologies with the (grey rock) grandchildren - my partners. I understand this concept totally. I want them to be confident, happy boys with their own character!

Can’t wait to learn. I was on school board and still on a sub committee re positive behaviour.

Thank you for this tool." 

Tracey G.

"You've Given Me Hope"

"It's Monday morning here, and I am about to embark on a whole new week of lockdown home learning. Your Grey Rock Method gives me hope thank you!

Jodi K.

"Can't Wait To Try This"

"I'm reading you book and love it, can't wait to try you Grey Rock Method out".

Gaynor M.

"Excited For This"

" I've read your book and can't wait to try out the Grey Rock Method." 

Kayla R.

"So Helpful"

"I loved your eBook and find a lot of value from your other resources like you Facebook Group Victorious Parenting. So helpful thank you."

Jane T.

"You're a Great Coach"

"I have two small children and your advice has helped me understand their behavior so much more! You're a great parenting coach!"

Brittany S.

"Wonderful Soul"

"Your insight is different than any other parenting coach i've come across! You're a wonderful soul. I appreciate all of your help."

Suzanne G.

"Advice That Works"

"I've read your book and found it enlightening. I am a teacher's daughter and love learning. Your insights are helping me improve my situation which is difficult going through a separation".

Mirrah A.

"Grateful For

Your Support"

"Arabella, I really appreciate all the support and advice you've given me. It's helped me become the best parent I can be". 

Nancy R.

"Thank You for

Helping Me"

"Your advice has been incredibly valuable. It's helped me understand parenting from a new perspective. Thank You!"

Lauren T.

"Amazing Research"

"Thank you for your book ,this group, and all of your loving research".

Lorily P. 

"Great Advice"

"Thank you so much. Now I know what to do when my 10 year old son and niece misbehaves

Shirley A.

"Wonderful Ideas"

"Thank you so much for this. It gave me some ideas on how to handle my 7 year old son when it comes to telling a lie".

Kim H.

"I'm Sharing This"

"Your book is great, i'm sharing this info with my friends because we all need help in this area".

Amy P.

"Amazing Resource"

"Your book is amazing. I am so glad I found you and I am a part of Victorious Parenting!". 

Shona M.

"Gold"

"Dear Arabella,

This is gold. Thank you I will certainly be using this style of communication with my 8 year old twins.

Thanks very much."

Anna B.

"I Love What You Are Doing"

"Thank you, Arabella, I really love your story and what you are doing".

Brandi T.

"Incredible"

"This was incredible, thank you. I now realize why my methods haven't been working. I am really happy, that I came across your book". 

Jennifer W.

"Winning"

"I've had some good wins from reading your material with my two-year-old. Thank you."

Michelle W.

"I love it"

"I bought your book today,

and I love it!".

Sharon H.

"I love your material"

"I have two children. I fear I may have messed up with the eldest. and I love your material ". 

Sonia P.

"Insightful"

"Your book is very insightful. I am going to read it a few more times and start implementing the methods right away."

Steve A.

"Compelling"

"I've been listening to your DWD audiobook and your insights are compelling. Thank's for the insight!".

Aleisha U.

"Yesssss!!"

"This is the best thing I've done for my child. Applying these methods has seen a reduction in his anger". 

Alyce M.

"Relief!"

"We need relief in our house and your book is the tool that is helping us to get there!"

Ann A.

"Finally on the Right Track!"

"Your Grey Rock Method is working well! It's amazing to finally have a name for the issues we've been having. I am loving the positive results we've been seeing so glad I found your book! We've been through so much stress and finally, we are on the right track. Thank you so much!".

Helen H.

"Just Read Your Book"

"I am going to put this into practice today with my son. I love your style of communication. I've always had an open, and communicative relationship with my son, looking forward to improving on that". 

Tanya P.

"I'm Teaching My

Students This."

"I run an SEL program for the deaf in Maryland and we are going to teach your material to our students. We plan on getting other schools for the deaf to participate as well. Thank you so much!"

Chika O.

"I Feel Like a Winner!"

"I have a passion for parenting and it led me to your resources. Thank you so much for creating these resources to help our world. I feel like a winner already!".

Francesca W.

"Great Support!"

"I have started reading your book and it's great support. I need to work more on the Grey Rock Method. I am the exact opposite, more like Red Lava!" 

Jen D.

"I Thoroughly Enjoyed It."

"I read The Ultimate Guide to Promoting Positive Self-esteem in Children. I thoroughly enjoyed it! I feel like it's just what I needed!"

Dawn K.

"Unshakeable Confidence!"

"Your Unshakeable Confidence for Kids Course is a real reminder of what's important and the power we all have. Thank You!"

Isabel K.

"Love The Course!"

"I am taking your Unshakeable Confidence for Kids Course. I really like it so far, I think my husband needs Emotional Intelligence training too!"

Kelli B.

"Thank You."

"This is exactly the kind of information so many of us need! Thank you. "

Milandre V.

"Wonderful Book."

"Thank you for your wonderful book. I am a lecturer in early childhood education in South Africa. Your book is a valuable resource to me.".

Amy B.

"Thank You!"

"I love the parenting advice you are giving via your VP Newsletter. Thank you for all the help and support you offer the world!". 

Val J.

"Answer To My Prayers."

"I am so glad I came across your book. I've never heard of these methods before. This is an answer to my prayers. Thank you!"

Maria L.

"Thank You For This!"

"I'm a single parent. To me it's vital to prepare my kids the best way I can. Thank you for writing this book. I am on my way to becoming Victorious!!".

Mona M.

"Love it!"

"I love your Discipline book and the Unshakeable Confidence for Kids Course! I was a teacher for 37 years and I wish I had this information sooner. I am learning this now for my grandson". 

Rowan P.

"I Feel So Empowered!"

"I recently made the decision to take my daughter out of public school. I feel so empowered to do things differently and your course (Unshakeable Confidence for Kids) is one of the steps I am taking!"

Jennifer H.

"Amazing"

"Your book has been amazing so far. It's helped me much more than any other parenting book or program. I am looking forward to doing the self-esteem workbook. Thank you".

Susann R.

"Great Listen"

"I've been listening to the audiobook version. A great listen as it's clear and so easy to follow, thank you". 

Mathilde M.

"Aligns With My Values"

"I've been reading the book The Ultimate Guide to Disciplining Without Damage and just started the course on emotional intelligence. What is shared there really aligns with my values and comes at a perfect time where I'm actively trying to get rid of generational trauma in order to raise my daughter in the healthiest way possible"

Latu M.

"Answer to my Prayers"

"Your page is an answer to my prayers about my 10-year-old son. I had no idea how to respond to his outbursts! Thank you what you do so parents like myself can help our children and empower them instead of causing damage with my own outburst. Thank you!!!".

Jennifer N.

"I Want to Hug You!"

"Hello, I am currently reading The Ultimate Guide to Disciplining and omg if I could meet you I would and give you a big hug. You've helped me on the first step to trying something new. Thank you". 

Laura B.

"It's Working"

"I have two boys, 10 and 7. I've just started trying your techniques and manage to not yell at all yesterday yay! Did have a few tantrums but stood my ground!"

Suzan B.

"Love Your Insight"

"I love your website and insight on parenting".

Tami K.

"Loving it"

"I've been reading The Ultimate Guide to Disciplining Without Damage for Every Age book and loving it". 

Nahomie J.

"Thank You"

"I've purchased your ebook and have been learning a lot thank you."

Carly J.

"I Enjoyed it"

"I have three children

and I really enjoyed your book"

Ami. A

"Working Well"

"I'm delighted to see

how well your advice is

working so far.

It's a mental

game-changer.

Thank you

for your passion". 

Katie D.

"Saving Grace"

"Your books

and podcast have

been my saving

grace.

Thank you!"

Jyln C.

"Really Enjoyed it"

"I really

enjoyed your

audiobook.

Thank You."

Sophie A.

"No More Yelling"

"I just finished your 

audiobook and I

have to say that

I haven't raised my

voice since the day

I started it!

I feel calmer now

and feel that I have a

better understanding

of my children.

Highly Recommended.". 

Deborah W.

"Thank You"

"Thank you for your hard work,

love, understanding

and digging so deep."

Melissa K.

"Textbook Responses"

"After listening to your

audiobook a lightbulb

went off and thought

that's my kid right there.

Then my husband and I

listened to it on the way home

from a trip, and he just looked

at me with the same lightbulb

that went off.

I've slowly started to implement some of the techniques and let me tell you, textbook responses."

Saulyn B.

"It Works"

"I've never heard of your Grey Rock method before, but I can totally see how it works when dealing with misbehaving children."

Cathy M.

"More Peace"

"This is my second time

listening to your discipline

book and the third time

listening to your

self-esteem book.

My house has been

less chaotic and I feel my

relationship with my kids

are less strained.

There's so much more

peace in the home"

Elizabeth N.

"Given Me Insight"

"Your book has given

me enormous insight

into my three granddaughters.

It has also helped me to mend

some areas of mine 

and my daughters

relationship. 

From this, I discovered

things I didn't know were

affecting her from

her childhood."

Courtney K.

"Loving It"

"Thank you so much for your content and guidance in this journey. I am so grateful."

Jennifer G.

"I See a Difference"

"I purchased your audiobook,

and I put the tips in place

on the same day and I already

see a difference in

my son's behavior

towards me."

Tiana N.

"It is Helping"

"Having been brought up in an authoritarian parenting style.

I am having trouble

breaking the cycle.

Reading your book and

putting the tips into practice

is helping!"

Claudia K.

"Very Happy"

"I bought your ebook

and the audiobook. 

I am very happy

with how everything

is explained."

Martina M.

"Anything is Possible"

"The first chapter of your book

has helped me realize that

I need to change things,

and that anything

is possible."

Anna G.

"Life Changing"

"I have followed your Disciplining Without Damage methods, absolute

life changer!"

Susann R.

"Game Changer"

"The ebook is a game changer

for sure. I refer to it and use

it in school with my students

and I use it in my parenting.

It's been the catalyst for so

many wonderful mindset

shifts for me."

Danielle B.

"Enjoyed it"

"I have read your

Disciplining Without Damage

ebook. This has been the best resource I have read.

I really enjoyed it 

and many questions I had

have been answered."

Sheryl T.

"Eye-opening"

"Your book is really eye-opening

and what I've applied with

my seven year old

daughter has worked.

I'm discovering so much about

how I was raised doesn't work

with my child."

Cristina O.

"Everyone Can Understand"

"The content of your book

is wonderful.

It is explained so that

everyone can understand!

I can understand better

what I was doing wrong

and why.

Thank You"

Sylvia V.

"Insightful and Relevant"

"I have read your Disciplining

Without Damage ebook

and found the ideas presented

very insightful

and relevant.

I have already put some

ideas into practice and seen

a shift in my son."

Jessica J.

"Changed my Perspective"

"The information in your

book has changed my

perspective and helped me to

stay more focused on helping

my kids learn the right

way to do things."

Brandie F.

"Thank You!"

"I've been working on

getting my 3-year-old to ask

"may I have"

"can you please help me"

and then, "please"

for a few days now

and he caught on quick!

He loves my reaction

and I'm loving the

pure sweetness!

Something so simple,

yet I never thought of

having him ask for what

he wants instead of 

telling me.

Thank you."

Amie D.

"Correcting my Mistakes"

"I finished reading your Disciplining

Without Damage book 

and it put a spotlight

on the wrong way I

have handled things.

I've apologized to my kids,

and even my husband for

the way I have been and I

am actively working to

correct my mistakes."

Sarah I.

"Taking the First Steps"

" I am guilty of saying,

"that's amazing"

or my child is amazing

but never said why.

When I read your ebook

it was obvious!

I am taking the first steps

in explaining why I'm proud

of them, giving 

specific reasons."

Nelly B.

"I Understand Now"

"I knew I was responsible

greatly for my daughter's

behavior issues, but

I didn't fully 

understand.

I kept hearing

"heal your relationship

with her and she will

be more compliant"

but I didn't know what

that meant or how

to do it until now."

Luraan L.

"Good Information!"

"I have three kids between

ages five and nine.

I'm finding myself

reverting to 'shouty'

mom under pressure,

and am yearning for

a more harmonious 

way to get things done.

My biggest fear is that

by the time they are teens

the chance for a strong

bond is gone.

I have been listening

to your audiobook,

The Ultimate Guide to

Promoting Positive Self Esteem

in Children, and there's

so much good information

in there!"

Sandra S.

"Opened my Eyes"

"I bought The Ultimate

Guide to Disciplining

Without Damage because 

I thought it could help me

with my 3-year-old 

boy and his anger.

The book opened my eyes

and I cried a few times

reading because I noticed

how wrong I had been

parenting my kids.

My household is slowly

becoming more relaxed,

and I feel like I'm improving."

Leigh B.

"Striving to be the Best"

"I grew up and was raised by authoritarian parents.

Listening to the first

half of your audiobook

has been very eye-opening!

I am practicing every day

not to repeat those authoritarian ways.

I am not perfect,

but I am striving to be

the best I can be!"

Anikka R.

"More Peaceful"

"Not even finished the book and already have had a much more peaceful week with my four and six year old!"

Leigh B.

"Striving to be the Best"

"I grew up and was raised by authoritarian parents.

Listening to the first

half of your audiobook

has been very eye-opening!

I am practicing every day

not to repeat those authoritarian ways.

I am not perfect,

but I am striving to be

the best I can be!"

Lanie W.

"Thank You"

"I've nearly finished

your audiobook,

eye-opening content

thank you."

Courtney Fox.

"Learning a Better Way"

"I've been feeling some power struggles with my 5-year-old

and enjoying learning a better

way for all involved.

Thank you"

Suzanne M.

"Great Ideas"

"I am a children's well-being facilitator, so 100% agree

with all you say and your

training has been fantastic

for cementing things

and giving me other ways

of thinking and seeing things.

As a parent, sometimes

you forget what you teach,

but you're giving me

a lot of good thoughts,

so thank you."